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Thursday, August 12, 2010

How to Avoid Communication Disasters With Your Boss

by Kip Parent, Keirsey.com


No matter what career you have chosen, at some point you are called on to make a presentation to "the Big Boss."

Whether you're in a corporation, academic setting, non-profit, or government organization, you will be asked to make a presentation about your project, research, team, or class to the CEO, VP, Director, Principal, or Department Head -- and the results may have a great deal of impact on your future within the organization.

A Typical Scenario

Susan, a first-level product marketing manager at a high-tech company, was presenting the results of her market research project to VP of Marketing, Steve. Five minutes into the presentation, Steve asked a question challenging Susan's team's methodology in conducting preliminary research.

Even though Susan's team had considered Steve's points before determining their chosen process, she answered diplomatically, "That's a very good point, Steve. Let me have the team put together the data around it, and I'll get it to you before the end of the day."

However, Steve immediately began challenging more of Susan's assumptions, to which she again diplomatically deferred, and the presentation devolved rapidly. Susan never did get through her PowerPoint presentation, which she and her team had spent hours preparing; but instead bore the brunt of Steve's increasingly aggressive challenges, in the end having promised to get back to him with a large inventory of answers to his questions. Susan felt crushed by Steve's seemingly harsh treatment and, after a few months, left the company -- a loss for all concerned.

What happened? And how can you be prepared so that this type of disaster does not befall you?

Consider the Boss's Personality

The key is to know something about the Big Boss's personality, and just as importantly, about yourself. A prime cause of presentation meltdowns lies in the difference between the two: in key areas you may be speaking the equivalent of a foreign language -- without knowing it. Disaster looms when communication breaks down and misunderstanding occurs. Most often the presenter has no clue that it has happened, and keeps digging a deeper hole, unable to climb out.

Fortunately, Dr. David Keirsey, author of "Please Understand Me" and "The Keirsey Temperament Sorter," has performed more than 50 years of research into these differences in personality style (or temperament), and once you are aware of them, you are on your way to successful presentations to your current and future Big Bosses.

According to Keirsey, there are four basic temperament groups. Each of us falls into one of them. Each group has a specific set of traits that, when mismatched between "Big Boss" and employee, can result in the above type of disaster scenario.

How the Four Types Play Out

If you are a Guardian (about 45% of the population):

  • You are respectful of authority. As a high ranking member of the organization Mr. Big deserves your esteem, and you will tend to defer to him when there are differences between you.
  • You value established processes, proven methods, and proper channels. These keep order in the organization and avoid unnecessary risk that can cause chaos.
  • You are loyal to the organization, and likely to put the needs of the organization ahead of the needs of individuals -- including your own.

Rationals (about 10% of the population):

  • Respect competency above all else and are skeptical of hierarchy and positional authority.
  • Question the status quo continuously and will discard any process or method if they find a new one that they believe to be more efficient or effective.
  • Are loyal to finding a better way, and the needs of the organization or individuals take a back seat.

Artisans (about 30% of the population):

  • Respect results and "getting things done." While they expect you to jump when they command, results are what counts, and they're open to challenge if you can back it up.
  • Despise red-tape. Extremely utilitarian, the ends often justify the means, and Artisans have little patience for bureaucracy, hierarchy, or tradition that stand in the way of reaching a goal.
  • Seek the thrill of competition. Winning is important, and teams and sides shift with the game at hand. Personal friendships and loyalties never disappear, but they are put aside during competition -- and reappear after the final gun.

Idealists (about 15% of the population):

  • Respect cooperation and diplomacy. Idealists see the workplace as an arena for interdependent labor.
  • Value harmony and individual growth. They abhor processes and organizational structures that disregard the value of people, or block harmonious relationships between people in different departments or job functions.
  • Are loyal to the needs of the individuals within their sphere, and are likely to challenge organizational rules that they see as detrimental to the well-being of their people.

The Application: Adjusting Behaviors

In our example at the top of the article, once you know that Susan is a Guardian, and Steve is a Rational, an effective response for Susan becomes apparent. Rather than deferring to Steve when he challenged her, Susan needed to respond directly to Steve's question, explaining that his point had been considered and the reasons a more effective path had been selected. Having established her competency to Steve's satisfaction, she would have continued on with her presentation. Instead, Steve interpreted her deference as a lack of confidence, and from that point distrusted her methods as incompetent and incomplete.

Most of us have experienced similar situations at some point in our careers, and are likely to face them in the future. Armed with awareness of Keirsey Temperament Theory, these unfortunate results are both foreseeable and preventable. In fact, knowing how to best pitch the Big Boss based on their temperament can make you a star.

The Keirsey Temperament Sorter, and a free temperament report, are available at www.keirsey.com.



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